When I say violence, it not only means physical violence it means mental violence too... Let her be mentally free, stop violating her..don't make her do what u want, let her do what she wishes to... Stop forcing ur decisions on her..she can take her decision better, it is her life... Stop torturing her..she is made for love and deserves happiness, for just once..try to step in her shoe...I am sure you won't be able to.. She don't want you to spend on her....what she wants is you can never give her..that is time, care and most of all respect ! Yes not every girl is same but alas! you cannot understand even one out of all. People say that she is complicated, yes she is but at the same time, she is simplest to understand. Just the rule is : SET HER FREE !! Let her be free from mind, Let her be free from soul and let her be free in her thoughts..just stop the violence..mental or physical and make the coming Women's Day, the happier ones. Love her..Respect her, th